• It is Not About the Bunny
Thursday, March 17th, 2011Several years ago, when my son was four, something happened that changed the way our family celebrates Easter. My son and I were at the drugstore when he noticed a bunch of big Easter baskets perched high on a shelf. The store manager had placed them there while the employees were moving out the Valentine’s Day merchandise.
With much excitement he exclaimed, “I want one of those, Mommy, pleeeese!” The colorful baskets wrapped in shiny cellophane and filled with chocolate eggs, a fluffy white bunny and assorted toys was very enticing to my four-year-old. Then he said something that stopped me dead in my tracks. “Mommy, Easter is about the Easter Bunny. That’s when he comes.” “What did you just say?” I asked him. “Easter is when the Easter Bunny comes.” he replied. Oh no, I thought. This is NOT good. I didn’t want him to think that Easter was about an overgrown bunny bringing baskets of candy and eggs. It was time for him to learn that Easter is not about the Bunny.
1. Setting the Record Straight
Many people are not aware that Easter has its roots in pagan religions. Hundreds of years before Christ appeared, Easter was celebrated as a festival honoring pagan fertility gods and the coming of spring. In fact the word “Easter” is the English translation of “Eostre.” which is the name of an ancient Saxon fertility goddess. According to church historians, it was not until the second century that the rituals of these pagan festivals were altered and incorporated into a celebration of Christ’s resurrection.
Today when many Christians celebrate “Easter” their intention is that it be a celebration of Christ’s resurrection. With the growing trend toward secularizing Easter, many Christian parents are finding it difficult to keep their children’s focus on Christ. This was the case with our son. One of the ways that we combated this pressure was to start referring to Easter as “Resurrection Sunday”. We feel calling it by a Biblical name helps us keep a spiritual focus.
2. Recounting the Story
An important part of our Resurrection celebration is the recounting of the Resurrection story. When our son was young, we read the story to him from his children’s Bible and use puppets to re-enact the event.
As he grew older and able to comprehend more detailed information about the Resurrection, we did a Bible study with him. We read the following passages and discussed with him what it meant.
Starting the Friday before Resurrection Sunday, we read about the Last Supper and the betrayal of Jesus. Matthew 26:1 through 27:9. Then we read the Crucifixion account. Matthew 27: 11-55
On Sunday we read about the Resurrection: Matthew 27: 57 through 28: 20
3. The Bunny Gets the Axe
Because we wanted the Lamb of God to be the center of our Resurrection celebration, we decided to give the Easter Bunny his walking papers. We wanted our son to understand that this celebration is about Christ and not a floppy-eared rabbit. By eliminating the Bunny we could focus his attention on Christ, where it rightfully belongs.
4. Keep it Fun
Easter, especially in America, has become very commercialized. Stores carry Easter baskets filled with chocolate eggs, peeps (marshmallow chicks) and fluffy stuffed animals as early as the week after Valentine’s Day. The appeal of these secular items is that they are fun.
When we made the decision to do away with the Easter Bunny, we didn’t want to do away with the fun. Our intention was to emphasize the true reason for the holiday. So we decided to incorporate fun activities, while teaching the Resurrection story.
Because children learn not only from verbal instruction but also from what they see and experience, we decided to do some hands-on lessons. On the Saturday evening before Resurrection Sunday we made Resurrection Cookies and Resurrection Rolls.
5. Make it Memorable
Symbols are a great way to enhance the teaching process. Instead of giving our son an “Easter Basket” we decided to give him a “Resurrection Basket” filled with things that relate to the Resurrection Story. If you are interested in doing this, below are a few examples of what you might put in a basket:
- a small stuffed lamb (Jesus the Lamb of God)
- a chocolate cross
- candy “stones” (similar to jelly beans) that represent the rock that was rolled away from the tomb
- a packet of seeds to represent the new life that Christ offers
- bubbles to represent the angel that heralded “He has Risen” to the women at the tomb (Matthew 28:5-6).
- Christian coloring books
- a Christian Children’s books about the Resurrection
- the Resurrection Story on Video or DVD
Another thing we did was to make our own homemade version of the popular Resurrection Eggs and have an egg hunt. This activity is similar to a conventional egg hunt but instead of hiding hard-boiled eggs you hide 12 plastic eggs filled with scriptures and items that represent different stages of the Resurrection story. After they are retrieved, you open each egg and discuss the scriptures and the contents.
For centuries Christians have given eggs as a symbol of the new life that Christ offers. Today this symbol is still used to teach children about the greatest gift, salvation through Jesus Christ.
If your children enjoy coloring eggs try this idea. Decorate your eggs (the hard-boiled kind) by drawing Resurrection symbols and sayings on the eggs with crayons before you color them. Then when you dip them in dye, the wax resists the dye and your images show through. Some examples of sayings you can write on your eggs are “He has risen!”, “Lamb of God”, “He Lives” and “New Life.” Some symbols are a cross, a lamb, and an empty tomb.
You could also have a scavenger hunt using a list of articles that represent the resurrection. Children can fill their list from things they find at home.
Celebrating the Resurrection should be about the joy and excitement of Christ’s victory over death, not about a bunny that delivers eggs and candy. I hope you’ll try some of these ideas or create traditions of your own that help your children focus on what Christ has done for them. After all, Easter isn’t about the Bunny it’s all about the Lamb…





